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Sex Columnist Dan Savage Calls BS On the Bad Fantasies That Make Relationships Even Harder

The venerable sex and love columnist points out the unhealthy “fictions” that keep us from being happier in loveSome people want to be ravished by a …

Dan Savage

She's Putting Herself Through Med School Doing Sex Work—What Does She Tell the Doctor She's Dating?

Savage Love Letter of the Day by Dan Savage<br>I’m a 30-year-old female in my last year of medical school. I’ve been a full service sex worker for the …

Medical School

Navigating a Newly Open Relationship, More Advice for Lonely Gays, and a Cute Pup in an ITMFA Hat

Savage Love Letter of the Day: Reader Advice Round-up by Dan SavageSavage Love Letter of the Day: A letter writer suggests "let's make racism so gay …

Loneliness

The HIV Thread That Broke Gay Twitter

A powerful thread on the oft-forgotten toll of HIV rocked LGBTQ Twitter on Monday and Tuesday.<p>Writer and food editor Tucker Shaw posted nearly two …

LGBTQI

Savage Love Letter of the Day: Group Sex With Her Fiancé Is Great But She Can't Come During and Feels Guilty After

by Dan SavageI’m 30, a cis female, romantically attracted to men and sexually attracted to men and women. (Whatever that is? Heteroflexible?) Anyway, …

Dan Savage

Slow Burn Live in Portland

From Slate, Slow Burn is back with Season 2, and now is your chance to experience the hit podcast series live! Join us for our first-ever nationwide …

Bill Clinton

Should Christine Blasey Ford Testify Against Kavanaugh on Monday?

Blabbermouth Podcast Episode 166 by The StrangerEpisode 166 talks about Chrstine Blasey Ford's sexual assault allegations against Trump Supreme Court …

Brett Kavanaugh

This week in Savage Love: Fresh starts

<i>I am newly divorced and have started a relationship with a man I’ve known and deeply cared about for decades. The sex is amazing—from start to</i> …

Dan Savage

Another Sufferer of Death-Grip Syndrome

Savage Love Letter of the Day by Dan SavageHi, Dan. I'm looking for some advice. I'm 26 years old. Never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl …

Dan Savage

The Happenings: Three things to do in Vancouver on Thursday, Sept. 20

<i>Looking for something to do in Metro Vancouver? Here are three suggestions for Thursday, Sept. 20.</i><p>Dan Savage’s HUMP! Film Festival 2018<p>HUMP! is back! …

Film Festivals

A Peek Into the HUMP! 2018 Jury Room

by Wm.™ Steven Humphrey"To See What I Have Seen, To See What I See!": Inside the HUMP! jury room.The annual HUMP! film festival—featuring sexy 'n' …

Film Festivals

Savage Love: Gay and Lonely

by Dan Savage Joe Newton<i>I am a gay man in my late 50s and have never been in a relationship. I am so lonely, and the painful emptiness I feel is</i> …

Loneliness

Her Boyfriend Won't Let Her Go To HUMP! Without Him

Savage Love Letter of the Day by Dan SavageNew to Savage Love. My SO and I love porn, so I was really excited when I discovered HUMP! Film Fest. We …

Film Festivals

The Gay Community Already Has a Flag, Thanks

Savage Love Letter of the Day by Dan SavagePlease consider this idea. It sounds batshit crazy, I know, but let's make racism so gay the racists can't …

Confederate Flag

Letter Writer: Stop Assuming You Know What Women Want

Savage Love Letter of the Day: Reader Advice Round-up by Dan SavageRecent Savage Love Letters of the Day: A teenage boy's girlfriend comes easily—but …

Dan Savage

Trump Says We're Prepared for Hurricane Florence. Are We?

Hog waste lagoons. by The StrangerIt's not looking good. Handout / Getty Images <i>Subscribe to the podcast FOR FREE by clicking right here!</i>As Hurricane …

Hurricane Maria

This week in Savage Love: Gay and lonely

<i>I am a gay man in my late 50s and have never been in a relationship. I am so lonely, and the painful emptiness I feel is becoming absolutely</i> …

Loneliness

East Vancouver's Rio Theatre finally seals the deal—and celebrates with free Big Lebowski screenings

Craig TakeuchiIt's over—and that's a good thing.After seven months and some deadline extensions, the Rio Theatre has successfully accomplished its …

Film Festivals

Reader Advice on Jerking Off and Eating Too Much

Savage Love Letter of the Day: Reader Advice Round-up by Dan SavageRecent oldies: His wife says he can't jerk off, but it helps him focus! This guy …

Relationships

Burt Reynolds

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Burt Reynolds

District Line Daily: State of the Arts

In this week’s edition of <i>City Paper</i>: art spaces around D.C. keep closing down, Washingtonians love a good booze cruise, and developers try to cash in …

Music Videos

Clouds over Buddhist Project Sunshine

In the wake of a third report detailing sexual abuse in the Shambhala community, senior leaders question the investigations by Andrea Winn and Carol …

Halifax

This week in Savage Love: Shooting stars

<i>I’m a cis woman in my mid-40s, and my significant other has a cuckolding fetish. My first response was “Oh, hell no!” But if I’m willing to have a</i> …

Relationships

I'm up to My Eyeballs in Covet—Is It Time for Divorce?

Savage Love Letter of the Day by Dan Savage<i>Originally published on Feb 17, 2011.</i><br>I am a straight man. From high school through college and after, I …

Relationships

My Wife Says I Can't Jerk Off, But It Helps Me Focus!

Savage Love Letter of the Day by Dan Savage<i>Originally published on Apr 9, 2009.</i><br>My wife of three years has a problem with me masturbating. At one …

Seattle

Thanks for Sending Me Your Butts

Savage Love Letter of the Day: Reader Advice Round-up by Dan SavageRecent Savage Love Letters of the Day: Drugs are "deal breaker" for her—should he …

Seattle

Savage Love: Quickies

This woman has gone down on me (I'm a man) more than half a dozen times in the last three months. Each time seems to be better than the previous!…

Relationships

Savage Love: What's the best way to avoid Trump supporters at swingers clubs?

Plus: Any etiquette tips for introducing my husband to my boyfriend?

Relationships

Another Very Fake Savage Love Letter

Savage Love Letter of the Day by Dan Savage<i>Originally published on Sep 27, 2007.</i>I am happily married to a girl in her mid-20s. She recently brought …

Living Rooms

This week in Savage Love: Quickies

<i>This woman has gone down on me (I’m a man) more than half a dozen times in the last three months. Each time seems to be better than the previous! She</i> …

Relationships