Ask Kai: Advice for the Apocalypse

Most recent stories in Ask Kai: Advice for the Apocalypse

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  Ask Kai’s greatest hits

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  A look back at some of Kai’s best and most notable columns

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  In the midst of despair, how do you find the will to go on? | Xtra Magazine

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  This is Kai Cheng Thom’s 100th advice column for Xtra. It will also be her last. Kai isn’t going anywhere: she’ll still be contributing regularly, as …

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  My new date is not as political as I am. Is our relationship destined to fail?

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  A self-proclaimed “lefty queer” questions whether they can find true love with a “gay liberal”

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  How can I get closure without accountability?

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  Kai advises a reader who is having trouble moving on from a years-old hurt

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  I’ve met someone amazing, but I can’t stand the way he smells. How do I talk to him about it?

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  Kai weighs in on how to have a “scentsitive” conversation with a new date

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  I’m asexual but I want to have sex at least once. How should I go about it?

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  Kai reminds a reader to “go slowly and to only engage with activities that feel good, or at least okay”