Christel van der BoomThey've been married for 35 years—here's the No. 1 thing they never do to have a successful relationshipverified_publisherCNBC - Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman, ContributorsAs psychologists, we've studied more than 40,000 couples about to begin couples therapy. We've also been happily married to each other for 35 years, …
Christel van der BoomLove vs. Attachmentjackkornfield.com - Jeanne RicciEach of the qualities of the awakened heart, such as love, joy and peace, have what are called “near enemies”—aspects which mimic and limit them. The …
Christel van der Boom14:32How to talk to the worst parts of yourself | Karen Faith | TEDxKCTEDx Talks on YouTubeNOTE FROM TED: This talk contains a discussion of suicidal ideation. If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts, please consult a mental health professiona...
Christel van der BoomWhat we get wrong about being in loveverified_publisherVox - Sean IllingCarrie Jenkins on what philosophy can teach us about love and heartbreak. Do we need a new vision of romantic love? When you think of romantic love in popular culture, you probably think of one of two things: limitless joy or unspeakable sorrow. Pick your favorite stereotype: obsessed teenagers who …
Christel van der BoomWhat science still can’t explain about loveverified_publisherVox - Brian ResnickPeople say they know what they’re looking for in a partner. Relationship experts say otherwise. Tennesha Wood is a professional matchmaker but admits she can’t perfectly predict when a couple will hit it off. “People give me really specific descriptions,” Wood says. “They might say, ‘I want a …
Christel van der Boom5:21Why We Go Cold On Our PartnersThe School of Life on YouTubeGoing cold on our partners is often a sign not that we have stopped caring, but that we are - somewhere deep down - furious or hurt. If you like our films, ...