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Why Ben Wa Balls Are The Sex Toys You Never Knew You Wanted

"You're not putting those in my butt," Anastasia tells Christian in <i>Fifty Shades Darker</i> when he shows her a set of Ben Wa balls. He doesn't; Christian …

University of Illinois

11 guys reveal the most common misconceptions women have about penises

Know what the refractory period is?<p>Penises are amazing, incredible, and sometimes quite intimidating things. If you are someone who doesn't have a penis, there will of course be things you don't know about them. Here, some men and people with penises took to Reddit to explain the biggest …

Relationships

NowThis Her

This new porn site is curating feminist-friendly erotica for women

A man raped me, another tried to. They were not animals. They were men | Amy Remeikis

When I talked about it, again, the questions came. Why were you out walking so late? How were you walking?<p>The first time it happened, I refused to believe it for a very long time.<p>He had grabbed me from behind, around my neck. I never saw his face. Just smelt the rum and Coke, wet across my cheek, a …

Sociology

12 sex and relationship podcasts that’ll make you laugh, cry, and blush

If you’re feeling like your commute has been bogged down by bad news as of late, you may want to consider giving yourself a mental health break to …

relationship

How To Reach The Ultimate Orgasm: A Guide On How To Squirt

March 28, 2018<p>Sex therapist Fernanda Zarate helps us demystify female ejaculation.<p>In the documentary <i>Sacred Water</i>, we follow Vestine Dusabe, a Rwandan …

NowThis Her

This photo series is showing women's real 'O' faces

Sex during your period just got a lot less messy

Despite the benefits of having sex while on your period—the release of serotonin is a major PMS-tamer, for one—women are pretty divided about doing …

New York City

Cultura Colectiva +

I know there are practices that are closer to cruelty and illegality, but why is standard sex also put in the same box as actual acts of perversion?

What it's like to go down on another woman for the first time

8 queer women describe the first time they performed oral sex.<p>Oral sex is something many of us get hung up on because all bodies are different, so eating someone out for the first time can be kinda nerve wracking. Here, 8 LGBTQ+ women explain what it was like the first time they went down on …

18 women on how they knew they were bisexual

"I basically settled it by watching porn, and realising I was undoubtedly attracted to women."<p>Sadly, annoyingly, frustratingly, there are still so many misconceptions about bisexuality. One of the most common things bisexual women constantly get told (usually by straight people, ofc) , is that …

What Dating Older Men Taught Me About Power and Desire

Twenty-seven-year-old Amy Anderson says her 50-year-old boyfriend makes a better lover because he's more sexually liberated. But not all older boyfriends are created equal, she warns.<p><i>My First Time is a column and podcast series exploring sexuality, gender, and kink with the wide-eyed curiosity of a</i> …

Relationships

Is Cheating A Part Of Human Nature?

April 25, 2017<p>Polygamy is a difficult subject. Anytime it is brought up, we are usually faced with two opposite positions. There are studies that …

7 Habits Of Couples With The Hottest Sex Lives

Chance are, you're already doing some of these things. 🔥<p>We don’t often associate long-term relationships with hot, earth-shattering good sex. The reality is, plenty of couples have figured out how to keep things fresh in the bedroom even after being together for years.<p>What are they doing …

‘It’s not just about the expertise, or lack of’: Why I don’t like receiving oral sex

<b>I’m not a fan of receiving oral sex – there, I’ve said it.</b><p>And before you start, let me assure you that I’ve had very talented gentlemen callers head …

“I’m 19. He’s 34. He promised to leave his wife for me.”

<i>This story is part of a series called</i> <i>Craigslist Confessional</i><i>. Writer Helena Bala started meeting people via Craigslist in 2014 and has been documenting their stories ever since. Each story is written as it was told to her. Bala says that by listening to their stories, she hopes to bear witness to</i> …

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How to deal with orgasm anxiety

Not to be confused with post-sex anxiety, orgasm anxiety is when you’re overthinking your orgasm so much that you can’t relax and actually enjoy …

Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Scissoring

What, exactly, is scissoring—the quintessential lesbian sex act or a fictive spectre perpetuated by heteropatriarchial standards?<p>Chances are, if you’ve seen lesbian porn—and we know you have because it’s the most popular category of all time on PornHub—you’ve encountered “scissoring.” You also may …

I attended one of New York's most exclusive sex parties on a private yacht — and it's not your parents' swingers party

As the cruise around Brooklyn's Sheepshead Bay wound to a close, and passengers downed the last of their free champagne, the captain appeared on deck with news: The tide was too low, and the boat could not dock for at least another hour.<p>"I'll let you know when we can dock," he told the crowd. …

10 Sex Terms You Probably Need To Google

Image: iStock<p>For many of us, the act of sex is just as important as eating food. And yet, while we constantly seek out new and varied culinary …

What Sleeping With Married Men Taught Me About Infidelity

I’m not sure it’s possible to justify my liaisons with married men, but what I learned from having them warrants discussion. Not between the wives and me, though I would be interested to hear their side. No, this discussion should happen between wives and husbands, annually, the way we inspect the …

Relationships

Dear Wife: A Letter From the Woman That Was Sleeping With Your Husband

Dear Wife,<p>I knew your husband before you did. We had a thing some years ago. And by thing, I mean an attraction to each other that seemed to sneak up on us out of nowhere after years of knowing each other. One rest stop later and things were very different between us.<p>We never got the chance to …

Relationships

The Scientific Secret to Sexual Desire in a Marriage

A recent review of literature has some hot tips for couples.<p>Sexual desire is easy to come by, but hard to retain. It remains one of the most common …

Relationships

Why We Need Orgasms

It can be difficult to stay present during sex if we’ve been taught that sex should be fun and pleasurable, but the truth is that you and/or your …

The Sex Position You're Most Likely To Hate, Based On Your Sign

Everyone has a few favorite, go-to sex positions — you know, the ones that never fail to turn you on and <i>always</i> get the job done — but on the other …

West Palm Beach

The Sexiest Thing That Turns You On, Based On Your Myers-Briggs Personality Type

What's your secret kink? Don't be shy, we all have one. I'm talking about that little extra something that drives you wild, that you may or may not …

Amazon Fire TV

Meet ‘mosting’ — the latest term to add to your dating vocabulary

It was a chilly afternoon in early December and I was waiting to board a ferry to Seattle; my whole body tingling in nervous anticipation. I was …

Relationships

The psychological reasons why we want what we can't have — and why we chase someone who pulls away

"Too often, the thing you want most is the one thing you can't have," said Meredith Grey in the show "Grey's Anatomy." "Desire leaves us heartbroken, it wears us out. Desire can wreck your life."<p>This will sound all too familiar for people who always seem to be chasing things they can't have. It …