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40 Cheap Date Ideas for Couples on a Budget

"Love don't cost a thing" —J.Lo<p>Because fancy dinners and costly ticket prices all add up, here's the ultimate guide to dating on a real-person budget ($), from stay-at-home options for the true homebodies to outdoorsy adventures that only require a little bit of spare cash and the right attitude.

Thrifting

Dumped Recently? You're Probably Going to Have Revenge Sex

Feel empowered? You won't for long.<p>Have you recently gone through a bad breakup? You're more likely to have revenge or rebound sex within the first four weeks of the relationship ending, according to <i>The Huffington Post</i>. In a study by University of Missouri, researchers studied 170 people who had …

52 Non-Cliché Second-Date Ideas That Beat Dinner and a Movie

Who likes making reservations, anyways?<p>Now that you've cleared the awkward small talk of a first date, there's room to get creative on the second. Yes, you *could* play it safe and opt for a traditional dinner. Buuuut it always pays to think outside the box and take risks: a new shared experience …

You're Not Going to Find Love With That Dating Checklist

Thanks for killing my romance dreams.<p>My dream relationship is to find a super good looking man, who drives a motorcycle and owns multiple deli meat factories — internationally. According to psychology professoran and author Dr. Ty Tashiro, I'm probably never going to find love, because all of my …

32 Ways To Please a Woman

It's not rocket science, people.<p>via giphy.com<p><b>1. Text her back.</b> She thinks about this shit more than (most of) you do.<p><b>2. Don't make us do shots if we don't want to.</b> Unless your idea of a hot Friday night is holding our hair back.<p><b>3. Don't stop us from doing shots if we want to.</b> Shots! Shots! Shots!<p><b>4.</b> …

Relationships

What Do You Do When Your Boyfriend Has a Terrible Apartment?

Sorry, dude, a gross place is totally justification for relationship eviction.<p>According to a recent survey by Rent.com of 1,000 people across America, 67% of people say that a nice apartment would make them more interested in a romantic partner, while 37% say a rude roommate is a deal breaker. …

30 Signs You've Been in Your Relationship For a Ridiculously Long Time

If you're not married, all your friends think you are.<p><b>1. You sleep with separate blankets.</b><p><b>2. You can tell him he's driving you crazy in a totally normal way without fighting about it.</b> "Haha seriously, though, f*** off."<p><b>3. You get in the shower with him in a completely nonsexual way just because</b> …

Relationships

Social Media is Ruining Your Relationship (In Real Time)

Status update on your relationship: It's complicated<p>Don't compare yourself to Jay and Bey!<p>Admit it. You are on Facebook stalking your boyfriend's kind-of-hot ex-girlfriend. She is ruining your relationship, but not in real life. Our Brit friends across the pond are reporting that there is no longer …

Breaking the Trust: Snooping on Your Guy

Is it worth it? We investigate.<p>via giphy<p>Recently on <i>The Mindy Project</i>, our hero Mindy Lahiri (Mindy Kaling) details those big moments of a new relationship: the first time you kiss, the first time you have sex, the first time you snoop through his stuff, the first big fight, and the first make up …

10 Friends To Lose In Your Twenties

Friend fat can be a real drag. Trim it with this handy guide, and proceed to conquer the world free of any and all emotional shackles. This post originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com.<p>Deal with this now, before your drunkest friend becomes your child's godmother against your will.<p><b>1. The friend you</b> …

The 8 Must-Try Sex Positions, According to Real Women

Plus, tips on how to mix things up in the bedroom.<p>If the phrase "familiarity breeds contempt" rings true, going through all the same motions in the bedroom, time and time again, doesn't exactly help in the love department. Relationship experts recommend keeping things spontaneous (whether that …

Text Messages from a Guy (and What to Reply)

Staring at your phone and not sure what to think or much less reply? Our dating expert takes six real life text messages his lady friends have recently received, deciphers them, and then offers you a great response.<p><b>TEXT: "Can't come over tonight. I have an early meeting."</b><p>Straight off the bat I'm …