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The Ten Qualities Of Outstanding Employees

Shutterstock<p>Back in the day it was easy to be a great employee. You only had to show up at work on time, work hard all day, be nice to everyone and …

Leadership

Five Questions Every Job-Seeker Wants To Ask -- But They're Afraid To

I was an HR person for decades. I focused on making my organization an amazing place to work.<p>That is the real job of any HR person — not enacting and enforcing policies!<p>The better the culture, in fact, the fewer HR policies you need.<p>When you create a high level of trust in an organization, …

The Benefits of Saying Nice Things About Your Colleagues

Whether we realize it or not, we are constantly given small opportunities to build up or put down our coworkers in the ways we talk about them. When we introduce two colleagues, tell a story about how a meeting went, or share a colleague’s work, how we “narrate others” can make a big difference in …

Avoid Burnout by Asking This Question

Vincent Tsui for HBR<p>In the late 1990s I began an undergrad business degree program at Queen’s University in Kingston, Ontario. After nearly flunking …

12 Micro Signs You’re Dating A Guy Who’s Worth Holding Onto

By Jessica Winters,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/2cJ4EQM<p>1. You keep talking about him to your friends.<p>You have the best friends in the world, …

10 Teeny Tiny Things That Actually Mean You’ve Met Someone Who Knows How To Love

By Nicole Tarkoff,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/2aUcym2<p>1. Your low points are never an annoyance to them.<p>When you’re upset about something they …

The Beautiful Truth About Falling In Love For A Second Time

By Chandni Patel,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/2as4dXF<p>The first time I saw the ocean, I ran and jumped straight into it.<p>As a kid, it doesn’t …

Date Someone Who Loves All The Things You’re Insecure About

By Holly Riordan,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/2asVXcc<p>Date someone who actually gets upset when you call yourself ugly, because he doesn’t …

23 Ways You Know The Guy You’re Dating Is ‘Husband Material’

By Chrissy Stockton,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/2aj44VI<p><b>1.</b> He can’t be ‘husband material’ if he’s afraid of, or otherwise averse to commitment. …

The Difference Between True Love And Attachment

By Lauren Jarvis-Gibson,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/2avqR3m<p>Sometimes, love and attachment gets twisted into one another. Sometimes, the lines …

18 Little Things To Start Doing Now If You Want To Be Ahead Of Everyone Else In 10 Years

By Brianna Wiest,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/2aaHnEq<p><b>1.</b> Be friends with different types of people. Don’t insulate your worldview by only …

There’s More To Love Than Fun

By Marisa Donnelly,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/29Eh0rO<p>When I think of love, I think of laughter. I think of thousands of things two people can …

8 Unusual Things You Do When You Can’t Help But Love Someone

By Nguyen Nhu Ngoc,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/2a6M2qS<p>1. You keep their repeated gift wrapping (and flower petals).<p>Let’s assume that either your …

11 Things You Need To Know Before You Date A Gemini

By Chrissy Stockton,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/2a4o4hF<p><b>1.</b> Geminis are the most passionate people in the Zodiac. If you date them, be prepared …

I Promise To Do All The Little Things For You

By Marisa Donnelly,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/1UDKUsX<p>I promise:<p>To cuddle with you when you’re feeling sick.<br>To always share my last slice of …

Your Life Is Never Going To Be Perfect, So You Just Have To Choose Which Problems You’re Happiest To Have

By Heidi Priebe,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/1RRegSV<p>We all want to pick that one perfect path that lands us exactly where we want to be in …

Here’s The Cold Hard Truth: No Closure IS Closure

By Anonymous,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/1U2UXfc<p>Closure. We all want it, but is it ever really achievable? In today’s modern dating world, …

How Do You Truly, Wholeheartedly Know When Someone Is ‘The One’?

By Kim Quindlen,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/1O41ZzQ<p><i>The one.</i><p>It’s a phrase I’ve grown to seriously dislike<i>.</i> Because it makes it seem like love is …

30 Silly, Little Things In Your Relationship That Prove You’ve Found Your Person

By Kim Quindlen,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/1spuQog<p><b>1.</b> Laughing just because they’re laughing.<p><b>2.</b> Suddenly having fun running errands or doing …

I Refuse To Promise You Forever Or Always

By Nikita Gill,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/1NuR8yz<p>A friend whilst she was fighting a very aggressive form of cancer, once said to me, “Stop …

50 Fun, Cheap Outdoor Dates That Are Perfect For Summer

By Becca Martin,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/20a9sOt<p><b>1.</b> Spend the majority of your night at a drive-in movie theater and get cozy in the back of …

7 Science-Backed Ways You Can Reduce Stress Today

By Sean Kim,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/1TepsAk<p>We all experience stress in our lives.<p>Some of us experience stress once in awhile, while others …

5 Tips To Help You Eliminate ‘Busyness’ And Actually Get Productive

By Max Lukominskyi,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/1ZFTSKi<p>Very often productivity is associated with hard work. The more you work, the more tasks …

18 Simple Ways You Can Find Love In Your Life (Outside Of A Significant Other)

By Kim Quindlen,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/1X1A98F<p><b>1.</b> While in group settings, pay attention to the person who may seem or feel like the odd one …

The Stigma Of Doing Things Alone

I was discussing prospective travel plans with a group of people the other day when one of them, after expressing her interest in visiting Lyon, remarked, "But I have to find someone to go with  --  I'm not going to travel there by myself. <i>Nobody</i> wants to do that."<p>The same afternoon, I walked into a …

The Truth About Success

By Max Lukominskyi,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/1TqwOuf<p>So often people are keen on praising huge accomplishments and brilliant stories of …

15 Little Things To Thank The Guy Who Truly Treats You Right For

By Brianna Wiest,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/1S8WDi1<p><b>1. For never having to decode messages.</b> The room you’re left to wonder is usually …

9 Ways To Let Love Into Your Life

By Elizabeth Stone,<p>Comment<br>• FlagFlagged<br>• http://tcat.tc/22z2cOl<p><b>Ever wondered why some people just seem luckier in love than others?</b> <br>Me too.<p>For a long …

ESFJ Personality (“The Consul”)

Encourage, lift and strengthen one another. For the positive energy spread to one will be felt by us all.<p>People who share the ESFJ personality type …

Science Says Lasting Relationships Come Down To 2 Basic Traits

Every day in June, the most popular wedding month of the year, about 13,000 American couples will say "I do," committing to a lifelong relationship that will be full of friendship, joy, and love that will carry them forward to their final days on this earth.<p>Except, of course, it doesn't work out …