Daniel DeLeonThe kiss that ended my engagementverified_publisherSalon - By Ariel GarfinkelGetting married was the next logical step. I’d been with my boyfriend for six years. We met at a small outdoorsy college. Three years after moving to New York City for work, we still had our idealism and many iterations of the same flannel button-down. I hated New York — the treeless streets, the …