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Welcome to Sexual Resolution, a biweekly column by sex therapist Vanessa Marin that answers all your most confidential questions to help you achieve the healthy, safe, and joyful sex life that you deserve.

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Ask a Sex Therapist: Why Does Vaginal Sex Feel So Unsatisfying to Me?
Allure - Vanessa Marin
Sex should be fun, but it can also be complicated. Welcome to Sexual Resolution, a biweekly column by sex therapist Vanessa Marin that answers all your most confidential questions to help you achieve healthy,...
Sep 27, 2018
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17 Sex Terms You Were Too Embarrassed to Ask About, Defined
Allure - Sophie Saint Thomas
Here's the lowdown on how to subscribe to Allure's print edition for more beauty routines, recommendations, and features. Especially with the rise of social media, new terms are coined all the time, including...
Sep 20, 2018
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Uncircumcised Penises Are Totally Normal, and It's Not OK To Shame a Partner Who's Uncut
Allure - Vanessa Marin
Sex should be fun, but it can also be complicated. Welcome to Sexual Resolution, a biweekly column by sex therapist Vanessa Marin that answers all your most confidential questions to help you achieve healthy,...
Sep 14, 2018
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Ask a Sex Therapist: How Do I Stop Feeling Insecure About My Genitals?
Allure - Vanessa Marin
Sex should be fun, but it can also be complicated. Welcome to Sexual Resolution, a biweekly column by sex therapist Vanessa Marin that answers all your most confidential questions to help you achieve healthy,...
Aug 30, 2018
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How to Take Your Best Nude Selfie Ever
Allure - Kate Sullivan
You've probably taken a nude selfie or two in your life, but did you love it? Like, really love it? Chances are that in the past, you may have taken at least 20 or so naked selfies before finding a photo...
Aug 20, 2018
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Everything You've Wanted to Know About Foot Fetishes, But Were Afraid to Ask
Allure - Sophie Saint Thomas
When it comes to sexual attraction, we all have our own specific things that turn us on. For some, a good sense of humor does the trick, while others are all about physical chemistry. Others still have...
Aug 17, 2018
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Ask a Sex Therapist: What Should I Do if My Partner Is Kinkier Than I Am?
Allure - Vanessa Marin
Sex should be fun, but it can also be complicated. Welcome to Sexual Resolution, a biweekly column by sex therapist Vanessa Marin that answers all your most confidential questions to help you achieve healthy,...
Aug 16, 2018
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Ask a Sex Therapist: My Boyfriend's Love of Porn Makes Me Feel Insecure — What Should I Do?
Allure - Vanessa Marin
Sex should be fun, but it can also be complicated. Welcome to Sexual Resolution, a biweekly column by sex therapist Vanessa Marin that answers all your most confidential questions to help you achieve healthy,...
Aug 9, 2018
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Ask a Sex Therapist: Help, I Can't Tell If I Just Had My First Orgasm or Not
Allure - Vanessa Marin
Sex should be fun, but it can also be complicated. Welcome to Sexual Resolution, a biweekly column by sex therapist Vanessa Marin that answers all your most confidential questions to help you achieve healthy,...
Jul 16, 2018
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Ask a Sex Therapist: How Do I Ask My Partner for Oral Sex?
Allure - Vanessa Marin
Sex should be fun, but it can also be complicated. Welcome to Sexual Resolution, a biweekly column by sex therapist Vanessa Marin that answers all your most confidential questions to help you achieve healthy,...
Jun 28, 2018
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How to Initiate Sex With Your Partner Without Feeling Awkward
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Sex should be fun, but it can also be complicated. Welcome to Sexual Resolution, a biweekly column by sex therapist Vanessa Marin that answers all your most confidential questions to help you achieve healthy,...
Jun 21, 2018
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Ask a Sex Therapist: How Do I Prioritize Sex in My Long-Term Relationship?
Allure - Vanessa Marin
Sex should be fun, but it can also be complicated. Allure believes in everyone's right to a healthy, safe, and joyful sex life, including access to info that helps them have one. Welcome to Sexual Resolution,...
May 31, 2018
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I Fantasize About My Kink During Vanilla Sex — Should I Tell My Boyfriend?
Allure - Vanessa Marin
Sex should be fun, but it can also be complicated. Allure believes in everyone's right to a healthy, safe, and joyful sex life, including access to info that helps them have one. Welcome to Sexual Resolution,...
May 17, 2018