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The 4 Words You Should Never Use

Everyone has done it. There is something important that needs to get done, you have the time blocked in your calendar, the time comes to do it, and you say to yourself, “I’ll do it later.” The truth is, even if you do get that important thing done later, you have still lost. When it comes to …

Success

Declutter Your Kids Brain By Doing These 6 Things

When it comes to options, sometimes less is more.<p>Today's children have playrooms stacked to the ceiling with plastic, battery-operated toys of every size, shape, and color. These same kids can watch up to eight hours of TV per day, a number that would have shocked the parents of yesteryear.<p>Growing …

Kids

The Mind of the Leader: How to Lead Yourself, Your People, and Your Organization for Extraordinary Results

Description<p>Publication Date: <b>March 13, 2018</b><p>Join the global movement that's making corporations more people-centric to achieve great results. The world is facing a global leadership crisis. Seventy-seven percent of leaders think they do a good job of engaging their people, yet 88 percent of employees …

Leadership

Being Married Makes You a Better Entrepreneur -- Here's Why

Want to earn more and be happier? Start with a healthy marriage.<p>Opinions expressed by <i>Entrepreneur</i> contributors are their own.<p>If you've been struggling to be productive at work, been challenged to be the best leader possible and want more growth in your business, maybe it's time you look at your …

Loneliness

18 Things You Need To Give Up To Become A High-Achieving Person

A secret about success is that it is just as much about what you give up as what you gain.<p>Are you willing to give up late nights out for late nights in working? Are you willing to turn a deaf ear to blind criticisms? Are you willing to listen to helpful ones? Are you going to be able to give up the …

Self-help

Marie Kondo and her husband use a spreadsheet to keep the love alive

The only thing more organized than Marie Kondo’s wardrobe is her marriage.<p>“When my husband and I got married, we sat down and talked about the kind …

TOP 5 REASONS A WOMAN WILL BREAK UP WITH YOU AND NOT TELL YOU WHY

If you break up for a reason that you need to know about, a woman should tell you why she broke up with you. Honesty beats every excuse and lie in …

Why most people won’t ever achieve greatness

Anyone can achieve greatness. Anyone.<p>Greatness is relative, yes. The results might look different; for some, simply quitting an addiction means …

Self-improvement

6 Ways You Can Start Your Own Business While Working a Full-Time Job

Are you looking to start your own business? Before you hand in your notice at your day job, you might consider holding down the fort while you get your company off the ground.<p>Are you looking to start your own business? Before you hand in your notice at your day job, you might consider holding down …

Small Business

8 Ways to Discipline Your Child Without Spanking

Spanking is one of the most widely debated parenting topics. While most pediatricians and parenting experts don't recommend spanking, the vast …

Parenting

7 oral sex moves you're going to want your partner to try

Ask them to do these immediately.<p>Oral sex is freakin' awesome... if done right. It's great being able to sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride. But while taking a totally hands-off approach can be blissful, it's a very wise idea to know what you like (or want to try out), and ask for it.<p>“Oral sex is …

The two mental shifts highly successful people make

<b>“When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”</b> — Max Planck, German quantum theorist and Nobel Prize winner<p>There are two primary mental shifts that occur in the lives of all highly successful people. Many make the first, but very few make the second.<p>Both of these …

Self-improvement

What Happens When a Married Woman Goes on Tinder?

<b>On a recent evening,</b> I was having drinks with a male friend — a single and actively-looking-for-a-long-term-relationship friend — when he asked me …

Relationships

21 Wild Group Sex Fantasies People Actually Have

Threesomes and foursomes and moresomes, oh my.<p>Keep in mind: Your sexual fantasies are not bad or shameful. It's perfectly natural to fantasize about some wild scenarios — even ones that you have no desire or intention to carry out IRL.<p>Here are what some other people are fantasizing about:<p>A …

If a woman has these 14 qualities never let her go, scientists say

People in long term relationships will someday get to the point where they need to ask themselves: Is this really the person I want to spend the rest …

This Simple Parenting Hack Saved My Sanity

“Sandro, the school bus will be here in three minutes. Please, PLEASE put your shoes on.”<p>“Mom, did you know that the peregrine falcon is the fastest …

A couples therapist says 'marriages often die more by ice than by fire' — here's how to know if it's happening to you

I recently read a novel that's partly about the dissolution of a marriage.<p>Years after the split, the ex-husband asks his wife, "What do you tell people when they ask why we got divorced?"<p>The ex-wife hedges for a bit, and admits she had "a hard time explaining it."<p>I'd been somewhat confused, too, …

Divorce

How To Get More Comfortable With Speaking Your Mind, According To A Psychotherapist

We're always told how important it is to speak your mind, but women are under a double bind in this regard: We're considered either too aggressive, …

10 Things I Wish I’d Known About Raising ‘Smart Enough’ Kids

Raising kids doesn’t appear on any lists of the world’s most stressful jobs but  —  no disrespect to mountain guides or stuntmen  —  I think …

10 Things to Remember Before You Take Things Personally

Let me share three quick stories and some life-changing lessons with you…• This morning at a train stop near the hospital, a man and his three young …

grumpy

The changing reasons why women cheat on their husbands

One of the more interesting facts in Esther Perel's new book, State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity, comes near the beginning.<p>Since 1990, notes the psychoanalyst and writer, the rate of married women who report they've been unfaithful has increased by 40 percent, while the rate among men has …

Game of Thrones

How Gloria Mayfield Banks Used Courage, Confidence and Choices to Change Her Life

In this vivid talk about having what it takes, success strategist Dr. Gloria Mayfield Banks draws on her experiences with domestic abuse and dyslexia …

Self-improvement

6 signs your relationship is in the 'friend zone'

And how to rescue it if it is.<p>The dreaded 'friend zone' is something many couples fear, but it turns out this doesn't necessarily spell the end of your relationship. Talking therapist Alison Raphael explains the 6 main signs your relationship has entered the friend zone, and how you can save it.<p>1. …

'My fiancé is 19 years older than I am'

Here's what our life is like.<p>When I first met John*, we were just friends. In fact, he was married to someone else, and I was engaged to another man. But he quickly became one of my closest friends, and I found myself constantly turning to him for advice, whether it was work-related, friend-related …

Asking these two questions could really improve your relationship

They're not as basic as they seem.<p>With any relationship, be it between lovers, siblings or pals, it's super important to take time to address any potential issues. Sitting down together and talking through what does, and doesn't work is just a foolproof way of keeping your relationship in check. Of …

In teaching me to be brave, my mother taught me about motherhood

My mother curled her toes around the edge of the diving board. Then she jumped. The only trouble was, my mother could not swim. I suppose she thought instinct, or the minor advances she’d made as an adult learner, would be enough to save her. But they weren’t.<p>She sank fast and hard and the bubbles …

Parenting

9 Traps You Fall Into That Limit Your Happiness

Almost every action we take in life is aimed at achieving or maintaining “happiness”—that elusive state where we feel contentment, satisfaction, and even bliss.<p>Still, happiness can be a bit hard to define. Unhappiness, on the other hand, is easy to identify; you know it when you see it, and you …

Happiness

Got a great idea for a business? Before you go any further, read this

Many startups fail because they create a product no one wants. Entrepreneur Ian James explains how to prevent this<p>If you have a burning business idea, 2017 could be the year you make it happen. But before you take the plunge to launch your new venture, leave behind a successful career, or pivot an …

Entrepreneurship

How to Write a One-Page Business Plan

It's not as hard as you think.<p>Opinions expressed by <i>Entrepreneur</i> contributors are their own.<p>Starting a business is no easy feat, and at the backbone of every business is a solid business plan. Before those words scare you, you'll be happy to know there's a simple way to do this.<p>In this video, …

Business Strategy

How to Make Your Startup Dreams a Reality in 12 Days

With two simple goals, you can get your business momentum in less than two weeks.<p>Millions of people dream of becoming entrepreneurs and starting a business.<p>However, according to the 2015 Kauffman Index Report, only about three in every 1,000 people in the United States start a business every month. …

Small Business