I write about Sex, Love is the greatest thing in all the world. Sex an expression of love and exposure to the inner realm of the human spirit. honorable in marriages and destructive when done outside wedlock. I am not looking to be laid or I'm DTF with Anyone. In principle, I'm most definitely DTF, but not with just anyone. And if you've got a live-in girlfriend or wife, you probably shouldn't be messaging me. As you will know from reading my blog I am married to my college sweetheart Joe. A big reason I want to write about sex is because we have gone through a rough time as couples. We couldn't find any advice online and friends and counselors kept the sex talk out of the prep.