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Narcissists aren't capable of something called 'object constancy' — and it helps explain why they are so cruel to the people they date

We're all guilty of saying hurtful things in the heat of the moment. Every relationship has its ups and downs, usually resulting in arguments, but these don't necessarily mean you're going to break up.<p>When we quarrel with our loved ones, most of us have the ability not to do too much damage. This …

How to Negotiate Using the FBI's 5-Step Hostage Strategy | Inc.com

I've often written about negotiation and how we undermine ourselves by buying into false narratives about how approach a negotiation. Sometimes that means adopting an <b>us</b> versus <b>them</b> mentality, which means someone must lose. Other times we try to compromise and meet halfway, which means both parties …

Self-help

19 Dating Stories That Are So Cute, You'll Be Sobbing For Days

These dates certainly beat a happy meal at McDonald's.<p>"For our first date, my boyfriend (who's a pilot) asked me to meet him and gave me an address. I arrived, and it was a small airport. He flew us on a four-seater plane for 20 minutes to Provincetown, with his Frenchie, Batwing. When we landed we …

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These women admit why they're thankful for their exes, because it's always good to look at the silver lining

It’s the time of year when people stop to give thanks. But when thinking over all the things you have to be thankful for (family, friends, your …

Get a Man to Put More Effort Into a Relationship

I am very stressed out as my boyfriend if not paying attention to our relationship?<p><i>I don't feel loved. He doesn't have time for me. I just feel I am</i> …

Relationships

How to Build Good Relationships with Pretty Much Anyone in Your Life

Theodore Roosevelt had said that "the most important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get along with people". Research after research show how good relationships with people around us are important for our health and even to our longevity. Knowing that, it seems that …

Humorous Illustrations Show What Anxiety and Depression Feel Like

As Grenville Kleiser (1868–1935) said: <i>“Good humor is a tonic for mind and body. It is the best antidote for anxiety and depression. It is a business</i> …

When dating isn’t worth the time, effort and emotion

I’m fortunate enough to be surrounded by women who are smart, independent, charismatic and fun. We discuss our dreams, books we’re reading, issues we’re <b></b>thinking about and what we’re <b></b>working on. Or at least most of the time we do.<p>There was a period of time this winter when it felt like all my …

Relationships

Relationship Disenchantment

New lovers often promise each other that they will be together forever. Offering glorious promises of enduring intertwinement, they willingly pledge …

7 Ways You Can Help Someone With Anxiety

Saying "don't worry" is not one of them.<p>To see someone you care about dealing with anxiety is hard to watch, and loved ones can often feel helpless. But there are things you can do to help — telling them to "stop worrying" definitely <i>not</i> being one of them.<p><i>Cosmopolitan UK</i> spoke to psychologists from …

6 Ways To Invest Your Time and Money In Your 20s For Long-Term Success

Your 20s is a time where you’re only just starting your career. 20.2 million students have just left education and its time to start the path that …

Five lessons I learned from seeing a marriage counsellor

Last year, my husband and I went through a rough patch.<p>It’s easy to say that now, but at the time I thought we might be done.<p>I was expecting to have …

11 Relationship Problems That Could Sink Your Marriage

Don't overlook these.<p>Marital problems don't always rear their heads in the form of some big dramatic incident, like infidelity or abuse. Sometimes, it's the little things that warn of an imminent divorce.<p>Below, experts share 11 signs your marriage is in trouble.<p><b>1. She tells someone else her funny</b> …

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How I fell back in love with my husband

I fell out of love with my husband. He fell out of love with me. This was just six short years ago. And we are still married.<p>Thirteen years ago, I …

Relationships

Popping the Narcissistic Bubble

I had a dream last night that I felt was quite interesting. In my dream a friend was over visiting and I was talking about how distraught I was over …

5 Vital Keys to Success in Love and Dating

Love acts in mysterious ways, but research can help you learn some of its secrets and make yourself a more attractive love prospect. Love is a …

9 Rules Happy Couples Follow When They Fight | Women's Health

<b>1. They Actually Listen</b><br>In the throes of an argument, both parties are often thinking more about their comebacks than what the other person has to say. We immediately become defensive in arguments, says Walsh. This is a feeding ground for miscommunication and results in two people simply talking at …

Why good relationships suddenly go bad

If you prefer to listen, this post is also available on iTunes and Soundcloud.<p>How good relationships turn into bad relationships, seemingly out of …

Coleen Nolan: We're tying the knot ... but the sex has stopped

A COUPLE have seen their sex life dry up after having kids and ask Coleen whether they can say 'I do' without knowing when they'll jump into bed …

Relationships

24 Things You Need to Do to Heal Your Life From Anxiety

1. The opposite of addiction isn't sobriety, it's connection. The same is true for anxiety. Anxiety is being disconnected from the present moment, other people, or yourself. Usually all three. You must reconnect with your life.<p>2. You must give yourself permission to want what you really want. There …

Why people ruin happy relationships

For those who can’t stop trying to convince themselves they’re bad with self-destructive actions.<p><i>This one is for Nikki.</i><p><b>If you prefer to listen,</b> …

8 Tricks to Fall More Deeply in Love

No matter how wildly in love you are now, says Lesli Doares, marriage coach and author of <i>Blueprint For a Lasting Marriage</i>, you can always fall deeper. Ready to take an even bigger plunge? Here's how.<p><b>1. Try something new together.</b><p>Doing the same old thing day after day can dull your affections. But …

Relationships

The Price of Loving Someone Borderline or Narcissistic

In my clinical experience, I have found that having a relationship with someone who has severe narcissistic or borderline personality disorder often …

When You're Tapped Before Age 30: 5 Behaviors That Burn Us Out

In all likelihood, you know what burnout feels like: Exhaustion, disinterest, poor performance, irritability, lack of empathy.<p>The media often claims it’s caused by bad work environments; bad coworkers; bad bosses. This is partially true: Employees with large caseloads experience burnout more often. …

Psychology

4 Reasons You Should Date Someone Who Isn't Your Type

One of things I observe most with my coaching clients is that they're often confused about what to be picky about in dating.<p>If you're the woman that has a "type" and only dates a "type," it's highly likely this is why you're still single.<p>Yes, it's true that we all have preferences in life. However, …

10 Things You Need To Know About Depression (Part I)

According to The National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH), in 2014, an estimated 15.7 million adults aged 18 or older in the United States had at least one major depressive episode in the past year. This number represented 6.7% of all U.S. adults. Research also indicates that those in certain …

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