Kate Sloan

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“Every Feminist’s Ideal Boyfriend…”

During the shitstorm of anti-feminist trolls I faced after the publication of my Establishment article, the funniest criticism I received was this: …

Relationships

When Sex Nerds Plan a Threesome

This weekend, I’ll hop on a bus and ride it for 10 hours, into another country, where I’ll have my first out-of-homeland threesome. We’ve been …

Long Haul

No Moment is Unendurable, & Other Life Lessons I Learned From Getting Spanked

Gaining life experience makes me better at having sex, but also, gaining sex experience makes me better at living life. It’s a two-way street.I’ve …

The Quick-Start Guide to Getting Over Someone

Unrequited love is the <i>woooooorst</i>.Oh, I certainly get the appeal. I see why it’s played up in movies, music, theatre, and TV. Unrequited love is …

My Clit is a Diva and I’m Sorry-Not-Sorry

“Higher.”He moves his fingers a centimeter higher on my clit, and keeps rubbing.“No, <i>higher,</i>” I say again.He looks at me quizzically. I grab his hand …

Lips

How to Get a Vanilla Person to Spank You Properly

I date and bang people who are older than me. Always have. They’ve ranged from one month to eight years my senior, with the average coming in at 28 …

I’m a Good Girl

<b>Sometime in 1995.</b> I’m a good girl. An exceptional, clever little girl. I know I am. I’m three years old and I’m reading aloud from the TV Guide to my …

What’s in a Name?

“What do you want?”He’s got me backed up against a fence, in one of the many residential alleys that crisscross through the Annex. The fence is …

My 10 Best Tips For Writers

Writers have written about writing a lot. Just about every famous author has been grilled about their writing hacks, and many bloggers (including …

Poly Diaries: So I Guess I’m Poly Now…!

I remember the exact day I decided monogamy wasn’t for me. Actually, it wasn’t a day; it was a night, in late May 2012. Some friends and I checked …

Relationships

A Dick Worth Sucking

A friend once told me that in her ideal life, she would give a blowjob every day. Her partner would get home from work in the evening, he’d drop his …

Meditation, Mindfulness, & My Slutty Mouth

Two major things happened to me in February: I had one of the worst depressive and anxious spells of my life, and I became obsessed with giving …

5 Awkward But Effective Ways I’ve Initiated Sex

Being a sex blogger, contrary to popular belief, isn’t all sensual sweet nothings and longing looks all the time. My approach to sex has never been …

Relationships

‘The O.C.’s Alex Kelly Deserved Better; All Bisexual Characters Do

<i>This guest post written by Kate Sloan appears as part of our theme week on Bisexual Representation.</i><p>The first time Olivia Wilde’s character Alex Kelly …