Gary Payne

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R-Rated Reads: The 7 Best-Selling Adult Fantasy Books on Amazon

<b>* Steamy best-selling books you can indulge in</b> <b><br>* All have topped Amazon’s Best Sellers list</b> <b><br>* Purchase on your kindle – now available with a 30-day</b> …

Fantasy Fiction

21 Steamy Erotic Stories Written By Women — & Why They’re Important

When I first started writing erotica in 1999, I would often get the question, “What, exactly, is erotica?” Nowadays, in our post-<i>Fifty Shades of Grey</i> …

Mind

5 Body-Rocking Sex Positions For People Who Like to Watch

Get looking, good looking!<p>There's nothing hotter than you two in the throes. Appreciating those gorgeous visuals lets you be voyeur and/or exhibitionist, and can be a huge turn-on for both of you. Get looking, good lookin'.

Turn-On

Ideas For Mind-Blowing Foreplay

Foreplay often doesn't get enough credit — not to mention time or attention. In one study of heterosexual couples published in the <i>Journal of Sexual</i> …

Sexuality

The Historical Roots of Blues Music

Contrary to what some people believe, the blues is not “slave music.” Although it was cultivated by the descendants of slaves, the blues was the …

Black History

6 Sex Moves To Try If You Love Oral Sex & Want To Make It Even More Satisfying

How many licks does it take to get to the center of a Tootsie Pop? I'm still not quite sure but it's probably not as many as you'd need to get your …

Lips

6 Things That Make Shower Sex So Much Better

And by better, we mean possible.<p>While shower sex is hot and sexy in <i>theory</i>, anyone who has ever actually attempted it can agree that it is in fact, The Worst: Your mobility is super limited because you're in a confined space, the risk of slipping is somehow even more likely now that you're trying to …

A Gentlemans Desires — Anytime, anyplace; adding a little excitement to...

Swiping sucks, so here are 6 dating sites for guys to find love

Online dating is hard. As a 2017 study points out, we used to end up with people who we were somehow connected to, whether friends of friends, …

What's Your Score? Take a Sample Wonderlic Test Like an NFL Draft Prospect

The NFL scouting combine is primarily dedicated to evaluating physical attributes. Draft prospects are required to run as fast as they can, jump as high and as far as they can, bench press 225 pounds as many times as possible and demonstrate agility in the shuttle and three-cone drills.<p>But mental …

Football (U.S.)

10 Erotic Novels Other Than ‘50 Shades of Grey’ That You Need To Share Your Bed With

1. Beautiful Secret by Christina Lauren (2015)Ruby Miller is a young and charming London-based engineer who is sent away for an extended official …

Books

Retirees: don't miss 2018's $16,122 Social Security bonus

With the right guidance there are a handful of devastating Social Security mistakes that can be easily avoided.<p>Millions of hard working Americans count on Social Security for their retirement every month. It is a vital program that helps lift and estimated 22 million citizens out of poverty every …

Retirement

How to use a cock ring with a partner (like an absolute pro)

As well as keeping a penis harder, for longer, they can add extra stimulation for both partners.<p>Cock rings are one of the most sex popular toys in the world - and we can see why. They prevent blood from flowing back down the penis, which basically makes erections feel harder, and last longer. And …

Free Eye-Catching Résumé Templates To Help You Stand Out From The Crowd

<b>Competition in the</b> employment market can be tough. Thanks to this list of 17 free résumé templates by Creative Bloq, you can choose from a variety of …

Graphic Design

Our Favorite Board Games for Adults

We spent 54 hours researching 115 board games and playing 13 top contenders with 18 people to find some of the best board games for adults. In the …

Tantric sex - everything you need to know

Because who wouldn't want to have longer, more powerful orgasms?<p>Tantric sex has somewhat of a weird rep. You're forgiven if Sting harping on about his love for it is your only point of reference for this ancient practice. Either that, or the bit in American Pie when Sh*t Break is meditating in the …

Self-improvement

The Fascinating Truth About Women and Sex Over 50

Woman over 50 are willing to let go of the myths that have held them captive.<p>When a woman calls me for sexuality coaching she is often around 50 …

5 Actually-Comfortable Blow Job Positions That Will Change What You Think About Oral Sex

You've gotta feel good to go down.<p>Sure, there are many compelling reasons to never give a blow job again. But even if you enjoy them, a blow job still should not feel like an actual job (nor, confusingly, should it contain any actual blowing). But if your neck is all twisted in some weird angle, it …

How to Pass a Drug Test If You’ve Smoked Marijuana.

(<b>ThyBlackMan.com</b>) If you are an occasional marijuana user but your job has sprung a drugs test on you, or you are applying for a new job in which you …

What Happens To Your Body When You Masturbate Regularly

If you ask me, masturbation is one of life's greatest joys: not only does it feel amazing to give yourself the gift of orgasm, but it's also …

5 Sex Positions That Are All About Your Breasts

Your boobs are a major erogenous zone—don't leave them out of the action.<p>The best sex positions involve as many erogenous zones as possible. Yet most …

30 Sex Tips That Absolutely Everyone Should Know About

On giving head and boning well.<p>Responses have been edited for length and clarity.<p>This post has been translated from Portuguese and adapted from the following posts:<p>17 Things Gay Men Want You To Know About Giving Blow Jobs<p>17 Sex Tips You'll Wish You Had Heard Sooner<p>16 Things Women Want You To Know …

The 5 Best Sex Positions for G-Spot Orgasms

These super pleasurable moves will make you a believer.<p>Few female body parts have inspired as much debate as the G-spot—that elusive erogenous zone …

Why Cock Rings Are the Underrated Sex Toy Your Life Is Missing

The cock ring's name is refreshingly straightforward: This sex toy is a ring that goes around a cock, whether that means a penis or a dildo. It's commonly made of silicone but can also be glass or metal, and it often contains a vibrating motor. Here's what you should know about this delightful …

Inflammation

How to make a girl squirt

Because yes, it's a real thing and no, it's not pee.<p>Ahh squirting. Isn't it just one of those wacky old myths like centaurs or unicorns? Well, no, actually. Female ejaculation is a legit real thing, and not as elusive and mysterious as people like to make out. Here's how to make a girl squirt, or …

6 Penis Rings You Didn't Know You Needed to Try

You owe it to yourself to check some of these out.<p>While penis rings (or cock rings, as they're often called) are certainly nothing new, odds are you probably haven't given as much thought to them as you might other sex toys. But you should! Because if you have sex with partners with penises, a …

How women can make their orgasms last longer - sex tips to add more pleasure to the bedroom

Women might draw the short straw when it comes to many areas of physiology, but not when it comes to orgasms. Our orgasms can last for as long as 20 …

Breakups

7 oral sex moves you're going to want your partner to try

Ask them to do these immediately.<p>Oral sex is freakin' awesome... if done right. It's great being able to sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride. But while taking a totally hands-off approach can be blissful, it's a very wise idea to know what you like (or want to try out), and ask for it.<p>“Oral sex is …

Sexual Health