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1<p>素养<p>  <b>蓝斯登原则:在你往上爬的时候,一定要保持梯子的整洁,否则你下来时可能会滑倒。</b><p>提出者:美国管理学家蓝斯登。<p>点评:进退有度,才不至进退维谷;宠辱皆忘,方可以宠辱不惊。<p>  <b>卢维斯定理:谦虚不是把自己想得很糟,而是完全不想自己。</b><p>提出者:美国心理学家h.卢维斯。<p>点评:如果把自己想得太好,就很容易将别人想得很糟。<p>  <b>托利得定理:测验一个人的智力是否属于上乘,只看脑子里能否同时容纳两种相反的思想而无碍于其处世行事。</b><p>提出者:法国社会心理学家h.m.托利得。<p>点评:思可相反,得须相成。<p>2<p>统御<p>  <b>刺猬理论:刺猬在天冷时彼此靠拢取暖,但保持一定距离,以免互相刺伤。</b><p>点评:保持亲密的重要方法,乃是保持适当的距离 …

Biblical Dating: Tips for Engagement

<i>Congratulations! You're engaged! Now what?</i><p>Let's talk first (and briefly) about the decision whether to marry a particular person. Here's a quick …

Biblical Dating: From 'Hi' to 'I Do' in a Year

<i>Make a decision within 12 months and avoid the pitfalls of lengthy dating relationships.</i><p>In matters of dating or courtship, I generally recommend that …

Biblical Dating: Growing in Intimacy

<i>You've started dating, but aren't ready to get engaged. What might your relationship look like during this "in between" time?</i><p>Before continuing with …

Biblical Dating: Principles for Drawing Boundaries

<i>If all sexual activity outside of marriage is a sin, is it also a sin to kiss outside of marriage?</i><p>Before continuing with this article, please review …

Biblical Dating: Navigating The Early Stages of a Relationship

<i>So you've decided you want to start dating. Now what?</i><p>Before continuing with this column, please review the preamble included at the beginning of this …

Biblical Dating: Just Friends

<i>What should friendships between single men and women look like?</i><p>Before continuing with this article, please review the preamble included at the …

Biblical Dating: Men Initiate, Women Respond

<i>So you think you're ready to date? Scott has some suggestions on how to get started.</i><p>The first step in the process of moving toward marriage through …

Biblical Dating: How It's Different From Modern Dating

<i>Looking for a completely countercultural path to marriage? Here's how to apply God's Word to dating, finding a spouse and getting married.</i><p><i>The system</i> …

约书亚原则——如何平衡服事、家庭与事业(刘志远)_举目杂志

?如果有,为什么主不给那个要跟从主的人?那个人仅仅是要辞别家人,却换来主说:“手扶著犁向后看的,不配进上帝的国。” 可见,那样的公式并不存在! <br>二、约书亚原则<br>在“上帝►家►教会”这个模式(图一)中,把上帝和教会分割了,还把家插在当中。把事物分割,以便分析和处理,这是希罗文化(希腊和罗马文化)的思维方 …